Support Yourself

Just a beautiful day on the beach in Barbados, nothing more, nothing less

Why do we think that we don’t control who we choose to be? When someone does something and then is unhappy about it, they might say, “Oh, I just couldn’t help myself,” or “I don’t know why I always do that.”

If you aren’t in control of you, then who is?

Your thoughts, your emotions, the way you speak, act, and function in society is all a choice. Many choices actually, but all leading back to one thing: you put out into the world a projection of who you think you are.

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Be Unique

Apps can change what you look like in an instant. Does it change who you are though?

How much of what you do is based on what you think others will think of you? Do you give a second thought to making decisions that might cause those around you to think that you have lost your mind?

Have you ever been told that you just aren’t acting like yourself?

Consider the persona for a moment. The way you act, talk, eat, dress, everything about you has developed over the years and has become what you and others think of as you.

Is it really though? What if you decided that you were tired of the old you and decided to reinvent yourself?

We can become whoever we want to be in any moment. This happens all of the time, but usually it is some life-altering moment that causes the change. Maybe it is a close-call, an accident that did or didn’t happen, leaving somewhere moments before a disaster occurs, or getting a diagnosis of a serious illness.

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