Do you ever wonder why it feels like nothing comes easily for you? You swear that someone put a curse on you, or that you have no luck unless it is bad luck, or you just aren’t meant to have good things happen.
When you begin to operate from this mindset, then you are fulfilling your own destiny.
You are actually making sure that things will never go well for you.
We don’t completely understand how powerful words and thoughts are. In every moment, we are creating our future through our energy.
Yes, the law of attraction is a real thing.
Winners expect to win, losers expect to lose. It is the expectations that create the results.
It’s not easy to break habits, and negative thinking is a very strong habit. We feel more comfortable expecting not to achieve our dreams than we do in expecting them to come true and living from that mindset.
Fear is at the bottom of this negativity. We are afraid of failure so we don’t even try, or we are afraid that success will change who we are and we will lose everything that is familiar to us.
No, it doesn’t make sense, and yes, our minds can operate in this way.
So how to change? First you need to be honest with yourself. What are your dreams and why would you like to achieve them? To say you want to be rich and famous is not specific enough.
Emotions drive our behaviours, not the other way around. You need to find the feeling state of what you want, how you think having the actual things would make you feel.
How would it feel to have money? What would that look like? What scares you about the idea, and what excites you about it?
Get in touch with the feelings first and find out which ones support the desires that you have. Not all of them will.
Then make sure that you actually want what you think you want. Many people think they want a big house and nice cars, but then they think about having to take care of them and insure them and worry about someone stealing from them.
They don’t even have the physical reality of the dreams yet but they already worry about losing it!
Life is like a big buffet. It is a process of discovering what you don’t want, and refining your choices to get to what you do want.
Operate from a state of gratitude for everything that you already have. More things will never make you happy if you are an unhappy person. You will only find more reasons to be unhappy with more stuff.
Get in touch with what truly resonates with your soul, and know that you can achieve the feeling state of that in this moment without needing anything to make you feel complete.
You already are enough. There is nothing outside of you that can make you feel whole. That comes from within.